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october 22, 2004

mommy to the rescue

A couple of months ago, we lost S's little blankie that I knit for him when he was an infant. The big blankies aren't allowed to leave the house, but the little ones were knit so that the boys could bring them along in the stroller or car when they needed to. And when they were 1, they needed to a lot. Well, little blankie got lost recenly at the mall. S got over the loss very quickly, accepting my explanation that it was now "lost" and he still had his big blankie. He's repeated this camly several times over the last couple of months, but never seemed upset about it. Until this week.


recent blankie activity

The other day, in the car on the way to the playground, he suddenly began insisting that I "get" him a new little blankie, that he had to have another one. He sounded so genuinely sad about it that I told him I could knit him another one, but instead of going to the playground, we'd have to go to the yarn store to buy the yarn. He said "okay, yarn store." Awwww. So off we went. Back to Putting on the Knitz (info here - scroll down) in Newton, the first yarn store I ever visited and the only place I've seen the Plymouth Galway I used for S's blankie. I bought the yarn there over three and a half years ago when I was just learning to knit and the boys were still embryonic. A year and a half later, when I realized that I would have to make smaller versions of the blankies, I was amazed to find the yarn still at Putting on the Knitz. And this week, now two years after my last visit, there it still was. Waiting for us.

S carried it out of the store, hoping, I'm sure, that I'd turn it into a new blankie as soon as we got back into the car. I told him that he'd have to wait until this weekend - mommy needs at least a couple of days! So now everything's on hold while I knit my first project again, this time as the first project one of my boys has ever requested that I make for him.

Sniff, sniff.

posted by alison at 8:59 am | in blankie blues
Comments

As these boys get bigger it's so sweet to see the baby side of them peek out. What a sweet story. What are you doing blogging, go knit that little blankie!

Posted by: Johanna at October 22, 2004 9:08 AM

Poor Stefan! I hope he can hold on until the new blankie is ready. Reminds me of a friend of mine who was really attached to his (mass-produced) blanket as a kid. It got really dirty and absolutely had to be washed, so he stood next to the washing machine the entire time screaming, and insisted on having it back when it came out even though it was wet. Another time, when he was learning to leave it at home, he visited the house of his mother's friend, and it happened that her dachshund had the same sort of blanket. Thinking it was his, he got in a tearful, stubborn tug-of-war with the dog over it.

Going back and re-doing your first knitting project is kind of an interesting idea. It might help you get some valuable perspective.

Posted by: susan at October 22, 2004 9:14 AM

Awwwww! :)

Posted by: Katherine at October 22, 2004 9:28 AM

I nominate you for the 'Best Mom' award. Cherish your boys. Mine are 14 and 15 and are no longer little, but they're still my babies (don't tell them i said that.)

Posted by: Jane at October 22, 2004 9:34 AM

oh, that is the sweetest thing I ever read.

Posted by: Jackie at October 22, 2004 9:35 AM

Stefan's so sweet and so earnest. That's a request that nobody -- and certainly not his devoted mother -- could deny!

Here's my question - are you going to knit it using your left hand or by throwing?

Posted by: shannon at October 22, 2004 9:40 AM

Awwww, that is so darn sweet. What a kid! Doesn't it make you feel good that they appreciate what you have done for them? You'd better get knitting! ;)

Posted by: carrie at October 22, 2004 9:43 AM

I got tears in my eyes reading your post. I would gladly drop everything if my son asked for a blankie. Unfortunately, he is up in his room agnizing over which college to apply to for the upcoming early decision deadline. Enjoy these days of simple requests and cuddles - they are gone so soon!

Posted by: kim at October 22, 2004 9:48 AM

So incredibly sweet! Your story made me almost cry... :)

Posted by: Brynne at October 22, 2004 9:48 AM

hee hee, how CUTE! I love the part where he chooses the yarn store over the playground.

Also, how crafty to have a baby blanket that you can make again in case it gets lost or worn out. If Becky lost her blankie, it'd be curtains over here. She is attached to this velour gymboree blanket.

Posted by: Leigh at October 22, 2004 10:06 AM

Yeah mom! That speed knitting skill will be coming in handy right about now...

Posted by: claudia at October 22, 2004 10:08 AM

this is the sweetest story!

Posted by: Shelby at October 22, 2004 10:18 AM

That really is sweet. The part where he says "ok, yarn store"? That's the best. Now comes the hard part. Don't let him see that he rendered you defenseless against his knitting whims, or it will be you, Galway, a 37 year old Stefan and an afghan for his couch. (In your basement)
Be strong. Knit the blanket, but pretend you had a choice.

Posted by: Stephanie at October 22, 2004 10:25 AM

That is so sweet! What a cutie pie.

Posted by: Tami at October 22, 2004 10:31 AM

Best Mommy Ever!!! You get my vote. He is one lucky guy...they do have a way of tugging at our heart strings, don't they? I can't wait to read about his reaction when the new blankie is done.

Posted by: Jackie at October 22, 2004 11:06 AM

That's so very sweet ! He'll love his new blankie,and you,a lot.
Sigh. :0)

Posted by: Emma at October 22, 2004 11:25 AM

Shannon, I'm throwing like I did on the original. Still not 100% comfortable doing the yo's and dec's with the left. Plus, I want it to come out just like the first one.

Stephanie, your image of what's in store for me was actually sounding pretty good until you said "in your basement". ;0D

Gotta go knit now....

Posted by: alison at October 22, 2004 11:40 AM

The boy already has his priorities in the right place.

Posted by: margene at October 22, 2004 12:03 PM

That is soooo sweet! Stefan is so lucky that you can knit him a new blankie. Usually when it's lost, it's just gone to the lost island, never to return. I have a question about washing baby blankets. Do you just throw the big blankets into the washer or do they have to be handwashed? I thought the Galway is 100% wool.

Posted by: Evelyn at October 22, 2004 12:13 PM

such a great mom : )

Posted by: Cindy at October 22, 2004 12:42 PM

How sweet! Must be very gratifying to have your knitting so appreciated, and deservedly so.

Posted by: Sharon at October 22, 2004 12:47 PM

Awwwwww! Now you know he's loving Mommy's knits if he i) requests you knit something for him, and ii) chooses the yarn store over the playground. Such a sweet boy. Knit him the blankie, quick!

Posted by: Becky at October 22, 2004 1:01 PM

My niece is getting married - she's in her late twenties - her "blankie"
knit by her grandmother went to college with her. I had the honor of
knitting her a "security blanket for two" as a wedding shower gift.
You're never too old for a "security" blanket!

Posted by: Pat at October 22, 2004 1:27 PM

Awwwww! *sniff* Ok, now I'm feeling like bad mommy for not knitting my little one a blankie. Ugh. Can you believe it? MIL had one knit FOR him. knowing that I knit of course. Ok whatever. It's nice, but not what I would've made. I was too insane and tired when preggo to knit one so I gave up. Ugh - I digress. Can't wait to see the new one - did he pick that actual style or are you kntiting the same as the lost one??

Posted by: Alysia at October 22, 2004 1:34 PM

Now, I know I have only met you once (or was it twice) but I could hear you speaking to your lil guy in your nice, calm Mommy Voice....and all I could think of, to echo the sentiment of many others, that YOU are a v. good mom.

Thanks for sharing that sweet story.

Posted by: elisabeth at October 22, 2004 1:57 PM

Good thing your first project wasn't on size 0's. What do you bet Benny suddenly "loses" his? ;)

Posted by: Kerstin at October 22, 2004 3:06 PM

So sweet. My 3 year old has an Angus--a stuffed dog I gave him as a baby that's his security thingie. When he started daycare he took it with him so I bought and hid a second one in case the first one went missing (learned that lesson the hard way with my first child) especially when I heard Ty was retiring this line of toys. Eventually both were put into use so the newer one could properly age.

He still needs two Anguses every night, when he's sad or upset or has a boo boo and when he's sick (Angus was a big help at the ER this week).

Your story kinda makes me wish I had knit him something because that way it's always replaceable and is a lovely declaration of love. (And you have a child who suggests going to the yarn shop!)

Posted by: Steph at October 22, 2004 3:32 PM

Oh the cuteness! That is just so incredibly sweet. I can't wait to hear what reknitting your first project will be like.

Posted by: jo at October 22, 2004 6:18 PM

Best story EVER! I can almost picture him watching you as you knit (not fast enough, obviously!) That vision is almost better than the story.

Posted by: Norma at October 22, 2004 10:07 PM

What a great story and what a lucky boy!!

Next time your at Putting on the Knitz give Don and Janet a hug for me. I just don't get there very often now, but I used to spend many afternoons there over 15 years ago now. They reawakened my knitting skills and helped me through many a "first" project. Sometimes when I am in Bosotn for medical appts, I stop in and knit on my way back Central MA!

Posted by: amysue at October 22, 2004 11:26 PM

Talk about coming full circle! As your knitting the new blankie, you probably have been thinking back to how excited you were when you were knitting them the first time and how you couldn't wait for your little bundles of joy (energy) to arrive! How touching it is that Stephan wanted his original mini blankie again!

Posted by: leslie at October 23, 2004 1:12 PM

Aw, thanks everyone. For those of you sorry that you didn't handknit something for your kids, don't forget about how risky it is to knit something for someone else, especially someone with fickle tastes! You just never know what exactly a kid's going to latch on to and fall in love with. I had no idea whether the boys would care about the blankies I spent months knitting for them or just ignore them like they do most stuffed animals. I got lucky and they became their beloved security blankies. They are by far the most loved things I've ever knit. And they show it! It's actually hard seeing my knits in such a state - pulled threads hanging all over the place, torn in a few spots, all the little yarn fuzzies rubbed off. But still the fact that they love them and I made them makes me a very happy mommy. :)

Posted by: alison at October 23, 2004 3:59 PM




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