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november 8, 2006

a little knitting friend

The stars have aligned to actually allow me to make some progress (finally!) on one of the for-friends baby sweaters I've had on the needles since the spring! I've started taking these much-neglected projects with me for playground knitting. Yes, playground knitting in Boston in November. This is turning out to be like the BEST Fall I've ever experienced here in Boston - it's 55 degrees out today! We are still going to the playground every afternoon after school and have only been rained out a couple of days since school started. And since my design projects require so much more attention (and decision-making and tweaking and fussing), I simply can't work on them while watching the boys as well. So thanks to good weather and active boys, we're one sleeve closer to a finished hugs and kisses sweater.

A little girl came up to me on the playground while I was working on the sleeve the other day and she was so into it. Often little girls walk by me slowly while I'm knitting and stare while pretending to be on their way to play something. Some will sort of forget themselves, and really stop and stare for full minutes at a time. But this girl started asking me all these questions about exactly what I was knitting and how I was doing it. She wanted to know about crossing cables and which one I was doing (the "x" or the "o"). She wasn't that old, so I didn't get too technical with my answers, but then she brought over her own knitting bag! She was working on a garter stitch scarf for her sister and explained that she was 7 and had been knitting since she was 5. She knew her stuff too. She had straight needles and immediately asked me about my circulars. I was still keeping things simple and just said the cable helped keep the two needles together so I wouldn't lose one. But she immediately asked if I couldn't knit something in a circle with a needle like that. Oh, yeah, that too. Smart girl!

Is it okay that now I'm more looking forward to meeting up with her on the playground than some of the other mommies?

posted by alison at 9:28 am | in hugs and kisses
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I don't think that's so bad; when I was a child one of my best friends was actually my friend's mom. I understood she was a grown up and she understood I was a kid, and we were just good friends. And you know, just about every time we've ever been to the playground I end up chatting with other people's kids as they play with mine, because their moms just seem to ignore them.

Posted by: Joni at November 8, 2006 9:47 AM

You could always start a children-only SnB!

Posted by: elizabeth at November 8, 2006 9:48 AM

The sleeve is beautiful! I just love the look of X's and O's! :) I am a volunteer for two classes of 5 year olds and you have no idea how much I look forward to seeing them each week. I totally get you on being eager to meet the young knitter than chatting with other moms! ;)

Posted by: ~Jo~ at November 8, 2006 9:52 AM

haha thats funny! Somemhow you have to get a photo of this cutie with her knitting. Or atleast of her scarf.

Posted by: pixie at November 8, 2006 9:56 AM

I love that sweater, always have. And I love your kip kid story. I used to knit outside of tutoring twice a week, and while their big sibs were inside, the little ones would chat with me about what I was making. One little autistic guy even brought me an intarsia design for a scarf. (It had a red cat on it). His mom was astounded as he normally didn't talk to folks at all... he'd worked on the design all week, and offered it to me to knit for 'someone who needs a scarf' but not him because he couldn't have anything on his neck. Kids of every flavor love knitting in public.

Posted by: Annie at November 8, 2006 10:04 AM

Aw! I have a knitting protege this soccer season. She knew how to crochet a LOOOONNNGG chain, but nothing else, and after watching me knit socks, insisted that her parents buy her needles and yarn so she could learn! I figured they'd probably bought acrylic, so I brought along a wool/alpaca blend in pretty "girl" colors to the next game. She tossed her acrylic aside and went to town! It was so cute! I'm going to miss seeing her progress - only one game left. :o(

Posted by: elizabeth at November 8, 2006 10:11 AM

My favorite was when I was knitting in Boston one day (waiting for Dan) and a little girl sitting next to me said "my mom does that, but she says more bad words". I almost fell over laughing. her mom turned bright red and stammered "i'm just learning". I told her, I use the bad words too, just at home, like she does!

One of my student employees knits, and she brought in a colorwork sweater today asking me to help! so, for 20 minutes before her "time in " she and I sat in my office and I taught her to twist her floats over more than 7 stitches.

Your sweater looks great--- there are goign to be some well dressed babies!
:) Kate

Posted by: Kate at November 8, 2006 10:17 AM

Perfectly okay and totally awesome! That child will treasure any advice and tips she can get from you. Man, oh man! She's a prodigy.

Posted by: LaurieM at November 8, 2006 10:19 AM

We've been playing outside a lot, too. I was knitting outside yesterday, but it started getting kinda cold on the hands towards suppertime.

Posted by: Sheri at November 8, 2006 10:22 AM

Hey, I always look more forward to seeing the kids on the playground than the other mommies. I love it when kids ask about my knitting -- I'm not sure that my own daughter will ever care, so it's nice for at least someone to think that knitting makes for a cool mom.

Posted by: elizabooth at November 8, 2006 10:27 AM

That is so cool!

Posted by: Michelle at November 8, 2006 10:32 AM

The sleeve is turning out quite nice. And no it is not wrong to be looking forward to seeing that little girl on te playground again. I would bring a spare circular needle and yarn and teach her how to knit in the round since she has grasped the concept already.

Posted by: Mia at November 8, 2006 10:34 AM

yeah we SO have some smart, smart cookies in our town, alison! must be something in the water. let's just hope it's not something sketchy they're dumping in the quabbin... maybe we should start a little knitting class for the playground kids? um...just in time for the snow. right. ;)

the sweater looks lovely! ~gabriella

Posted by: gabriella at November 8, 2006 10:35 AM

I'm thinking about starting a 4-H knitting class. I was going to target grades 6-7-8 but maybe I'm aiming at the wrong age group! heh It's amazing how people can just completely ignore what you're doing as if it's not happening at all when you knit in public. Like they don't notice. Ha. As if. They're curious. But they're just adults and are covered up with inhibitions. Unlike that cute little girl at the playground. Great story!

Posted by: Laura at November 8, 2006 10:40 AM

Oh! That is so great. She would probably understand if you showed her how to use the circs. Children can be very surprising! Just think - maybe your wee one will be into knitting.
The sleeve looks lovely - your friend is going to love that sweater.

Posted by: Miss Scarlett at November 8, 2006 10:57 AM

This is a wonderful story! I love that she plunked herself by you and started chatting!

Posted by: Christy at November 8, 2006 10:57 AM

That kid rocks. Get her name and tell us, so we know who the Next Big Thing in knitting will be. ;-)

Posted by: Carrie at November 8, 2006 11:19 AM

What a precious conversation you had with that little girl! I'll bet you now have a new knitting buddy at the playground! And that could be your little girl in a few years!

Posted by: Mary at November 8, 2006 11:24 AM

Ah, how cute! The story and the sweater. You absolutely need to hang out with that little knitter.

Posted by: Angie at November 8, 2006 11:27 AM

The fact that you want to see her again makes you a natural mentor...

At our local knit shop, kids aren't accepted as students until they are 12. By the time your mentee is 12, she'll be able to teach - maybe earlier.

Posted by: Diane at November 8, 2006 11:29 AM

My 7-year-old son started knitting this summer--he made 3 scarves, 2 hats and 2 pairs of wrist warmers, so now he is making himself a sweater! He is such a high-energy, non-fine-motor boy, I didn't know he would like to knit, but he especially likes to knit while I read to him--it helps him not be squirmy. I wish more boys would try knitting!

Posted by: Barb in Sudbury at November 8, 2006 11:33 AM

Wow Alison...you met.....''a natural born knitter''...... I bet her Mum or Grandmum would be good to meet too (or aunty, friend etc etc!!!)...plus I love what you are knitting. She will come and find you again too.

Posted by: Anne at November 8, 2006 12:09 PM

too cool. I remember a year ago I took Gil to the Gymboree (in door playing ground) and a little girl came up to me and asked what I was making. She also said it was prettty....awwwwww....I think Gil would rather I gave up my hobbie...as it takes away from my attention time. I try to knit when he's asleep.

Posted by: Orli at November 8, 2006 12:32 PM

Oh I need to adopt her!

Posted by: kimberly at November 8, 2006 12:41 PM

What a sweet story!!
I get a lot of questions about my knitting from the little ones and I think it's cute how curious they are about it!
How sweet she pulled out knitting and sat next to you. I love it!
Oh, and yes, the sleeve is lovely! =)

Posted by: Brandie at November 8, 2006 12:41 PM

Last year around Halloween I had two little boys in Spiderman costumes admire my knitting on the T. :) I was making a Harry Potter scarf for my friend and the boys were very impressed. I'd guess they were about 5 and 7 years old, and their mom was telling them not to bother me.

Posted by: Ariel at November 8, 2006 12:43 PM

What a wonderful story! I love it!

Posted by: Sachi at November 8, 2006 12:58 PM

I love the pattern you're using for the sweater, the x's and o's are great! :)

Knitting since she was five? There is hope for my little girl yet, who just turned six. She keeps trying, and does well, but gets bored with it :)

Posted by: Tracey at November 8, 2006 1:01 PM

Sounds like you've found a future Knitsmith! Or maybe she'll start her own playground knitting group :)

Posted by: Danielle at November 8, 2006 1:11 PM

Man, someone has trained that child well!!! Did you ask who had taught her? Sounds like a natural. Wish my daughter would exhibit some interest *pout*

Posted by: JennyRaye at November 8, 2006 1:16 PM

awww, get them while they're young!

Posted by: Elinor at November 8, 2006 1:29 PM

That is SO cute! (The sweater and the little girl story.) She has a good teacher somewhere, and a sharp mind.

Whenever I have my knitting out somewhere I get lots of kids (girls and boys) asking about it. I was knitting on the bus on the way back from my kindergartener's pumpkin patch field trip and one little girl just wouldn't stop watching me, but she had this look on her face like she thought I was insane. She asked what I was doing. Then, what was I making? (Socks.) Then when we were almost back to the school, "Are they done yet?" Then she asked why I didn't just buy socks.

Posted by: Lara at November 8, 2006 2:05 PM

It's very okay, you two muses sitting together on the playground, fiber and needles a flying.

Posted by: Tracey at November 8, 2006 2:24 PM

Oh, not only should you be looking forward to seeing her more than other moms, you should be looking FOR her. Period.

When the bug strikes and strikes young, it is our duty to be sure and feed the interest so that our craft can continue on for generations to come!

Posted by: knittingnurse at November 8, 2006 3:37 PM

It's sounds like maybe her mom (or dad) is a knitter too. When they start as young as 5 there is usually someone in the household that also knits.

I need to get a learn-to-knit kit gathered for my grandaughter. How old is she? Umm.....she'll be born some time in March. ;-)

Posted by: Marlene at November 8, 2006 4:23 PM

she sounds like a kindred spirit. Loving reading all the comments too! Wish I had started that early. Ah, never too late to become a knitter!

Posted by: Stephanie at November 8, 2006 5:06 PM

that story just made my day! i was that age when i first learned to do needlework, and it stuck because of kind patient grownups who would show me how to do stuff, or let me watch them make stuff. beautiful.

Posted by: amisha at November 8, 2006 5:28 PM

that's an adorable story! I started knitting when I was five too. One of my first projects (and oldest UFOs) is a "stomach warmer" for my grandfather. It's pretty comical. My grandmother still has it in her closet!

Love the hugs and kisses sweater too - it's very sweet. Lucky recipient!

Posted by: connie at November 8, 2006 5:59 PM

How sweet. Arent little kids the greatest sometimes, especially ones that knit. Now you have your own knitting buddy at the playground, and the boys can play for longer.

Posted by: Sue at November 8, 2006 7:25 PM

Wonderful!!
My daughter, now 6, started knitting a year ago. She's knitting mittens now on dpns. It's kinda like kids and school, they'll go as far as you let them. :)

Oh that and tell them they "can't" and you'll be sure they will. ;)

Posted by: Lynn at November 8, 2006 8:09 PM

That'll be YOUR knitting little girl before you know it!

Posted by: Wendi at November 8, 2006 8:54 PM

I love the X's and O's! That was an adorable playground story.

Posted by: C at November 9, 2006 1:22 AM

That's a heart-warming tale! I only hope my daughter will want to knit!

Posted by: Renee at November 9, 2006 5:35 PM

Totally okay! That's great!

Posted by: Kat with a K at November 10, 2006 1:09 PM

I think in these days of "stranger danger" it is a blessing when children find interested, non-condescending adults. (Not to mention that in these days of gangmember wannabees it is nice for adults to meet eager, smart, interesting children.) My daughter did not respond well to knitting when it was presented at 10, 12, 16. But boy, when she was ready (22, I think) she really took off. She now needs a whole room for her stash!

Posted by: KnittingPainterWoman at November 11, 2006 8:22 PM

What a lovely story, it made me feel all warm inside, thanks! My 5-year old has her own knitting, but prefers Mummy to do the work on it as it's all a bit too time-consuming for Miss Speedy-pants at present. She already appreciates the end results very much and said this morning that she is going to buy me some nice wool for Christmas-at last someone who knows what I really want!

Posted by: donna at November 12, 2006 3:14 AM




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