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march 24, 2006

warning: you can love a blankie to death

S is getting his lovin' in as long as he can. His blankie is not long for this world. Let's take a look at what has happened since the blankie's last visit to the knitting doctor:

I found this run on the plane on our way to Germany. Since we were on the plane, I had none of my notions with me - no stitch markers, no crochet hook, no tapestry needle, no scrap yarn, no scissors. I had to cut some Manos that I had brought to knit an afghan square (cut it with the dental floss I brought with me) and slip it into the dropped stitches as best I could and tie a knot. He doesn't mind the Manos threads, so I've left them in there ever since.

This is S's favorite corner. I repaired this corner about a year ago, leaving it nice and new and thick. He LOVES (and by 'loves' I mean holds and flips and tugs) on that "new" little corner so much that the yarn all around it has become too thin to hold together. Now he says he likes this corner best because of all the holes.

I had let the two above problems go without a lot of life-saving measures, but then I saw this on one of the edges. That could not be left for long. I had a real battle to get the blankie away from S long enough to deal with it. There was no way I could reknit all that - the yarn is too thin to hold for long even if I could - so I ran 'safety lines' through the rows right below the unraveled section (as well as around and under all those holes in S's favorite corner).

We've talked and talked about what should happen when big blankie is finally so full of holes that it doesn't stay together. S gets very sad. He says he doesn't want me to just unravel the areas that are ripped and reknit a couple of feet of the blanket, because then his special corner won't be there. But he also says that I could always just knit him a new blanket. So clearly, we're conflicted. We don't have pets, but I think the boys are learning the same lesson about mortality through loving these blankies. S doesn't want to see his old blankie die and he knows that another blankie would never be exactly the same as this one. Nevertheless, more Plymouth Galway is on order.

posted by alison at 9:31 am | in blankie blues
Comments

Such a sweet baby boy! Love them blanket kiddos...my oldest had a mini quilt made by my grandmother. It was a double sided quilt, but he managed to wear it through. It went under the sewing machine several times to the point it was almost thread with very little material. We finally put it to rest when he was 9, but I do still have it tucked away, I just can't bear to part with it entirely...someday I'll find a way to "save" it...

Thank you for sharing your boys...

Posted by: Carry at March 24, 2006 9:49 AM

Awwww. I guess everything dies. The goldfish, the little plant in the foam cup, and blankies.

Would attaching a flannel backing to the blankie help?

Posted by: Amy Lu at March 24, 2006 9:59 AM

That's so sweet. My daughter has her blanket that she loves -- she joke that she's going to walk down the aisle with it. Luckily, it's made from Polarfleece.

Posted by: Kathy at March 24, 2006 10:12 AM

My brother was like this with a stuffed toy that my mom made for him - "Horsie." Eventually there were two or three Horsies so that one could get washed and one could get repaired while one was in use...

Posted by: Chris at March 24, 2006 10:17 AM

Ohhhh the "favorite corner" just kills me. I'm mush.

Posted by: Jenna at March 24, 2006 10:23 AM

What stitch pattern did you use? I love how lacy it is while still being masculine! I have a brand new nephew that could really use a blanket. I just found your blog a few weeks ago from the link on Knitty and have really enjoyed looking through your archives. Entertaining writing! Great knitting advice! Cute pictures!

Posted by: Kate at March 24, 2006 10:36 AM

Same thing has happened to my son's handknit blankie. It was knitted by a family friend, so it has been less hard on me than if I had knitted it myself. But, I'm knitting him a new one right now, so I'm sure I will go through the same mix of emotions one day with that one!

Posted by: katie at March 24, 2006 10:37 AM

That's how my daughter's favorite blankie got (it was flannel). There were patches and repairs all over it and finally we retired it. It's still nearby in her bedroom but doesn't go everywhere with us any more (thank goodness, she's nearly ten years old now).

Posted by: Laura at March 24, 2006 10:40 AM

What about B's blankie? It can't be far behind. Poor little boys. Poor little blankies.

Oh, and I was wondering if you spoke German at home with the boys (since they know "Fensterplatz"). Being bilingual is a wonderful thing. I truly regret that I don't speak my native language or communicate well with my relatives.

Posted by: JJ at March 24, 2006 10:41 AM

I love reading your blog, as much for the boys as for the knitting! I have two sons who are now 20 and 18; around the age of 5 we decided that the blankies needed to stay in the house, and gradually corralled them to the bedrooms. I think my older son kept his under his pillow until mid-high school. I love every unraveling shred of that blanket and will never part with it.

Knit the new one and make it bigger, because he is growing up so much.

Posted by: Amy Murphy at March 24, 2006 11:01 AM

Sounds like the "holes" are crucial to the design of the blankie. Otherwise, I would suggest some incredibly soft yarn like Berroco's "Plush" or "Plush Colors" which everyone loves for their softness. I suppose you could still knit that with holes....

Posted by: Mary at March 24, 2006 11:08 AM

What about snipping off his favorite corner, and framing it to hang in his room? That way part of his blankie is preserved forever. Would he buy that? :) And maybe some of the rest of the yarn could be worked into a new blankie.

Posted by: Natalie at March 24, 2006 11:28 AM

My brother wore his blankie (a standard store-bought one) down to a little tiny square of fabric, which he would gingerly place over his closed eyes when he went to bed at night.
What would happen if you ran rows of machine sewing in the same color throughout? Then maybe only one small section would get bad, and eventually the outer edges would turn to fringe. ??

Posted by: Carrie at March 24, 2006 11:59 AM

Ooooh, that makes me so sad for him. I like the idea of trying to preserve the center (intact) section. Then knit another one so that the 2 blakies overlap and he will have gotten somewhat use to blankie 2 when blankie 1 finally goes to heaven.

:-(

Posted by: knittingnurse at March 24, 2006 1:18 PM

I hope next blanket you knit, you'll use double yarn throughout the corners. ;) How about converting the slowly-dying blanket into a pillow or use some of the yarn to knit a special teddy bear. It breaks my heart to see S so sad about his blanket. Awe!!!

I wish I knew how to knit way back when and that my kids had special blankets. Oh well, at least now I'm knitting a blanket for another baby and hopefully it'll be special for the baby's parents. ;)

Posted by: ~Jo~ at March 24, 2006 1:19 PM

what a sweet tale of a boy and his blankie! you are such the loving mama to repair and repair and repair... they are a lucky pair!

Posted by: jennifer at March 24, 2006 2:06 PM

I always like the blankie updates and the comments they inspire!

Posted by: Daphne at March 24, 2006 2:13 PM

Awww, how sad for him. I hope his next blankie is as good to him as this one has been.

Posted by: Samantha at March 24, 2006 2:44 PM

I love that first shot. There is nothing that makes me happier than seeing a little one love a handknit "to death". Good luck on keeping it alive.

Posted by: Angela at March 24, 2006 3:27 PM

Oh, how sweet.

My mom kept my blankies (I called them fuffies, cause I couldn't/wouldn't say fluffy correctly), and when I graduated form college I "stole" them back and they now "live" with the rest of my bedding.

You can grow up, but it's nice to hold onto our childhood possessions too.

Posted by: Heather at March 24, 2006 4:20 PM

Poor S. But it's such a joy to knit for someone who loves it so much!

Posted by: Lynn S. at March 24, 2006 4:22 PM

Mine is a stuffed animal, not a blankie, but he has been refurbished so many times--my mom basically just sewed new layers of fabric over the old disintegrating ones. But alwaya, always, always, she left the ear (the part that I held onto while I sucked my thumb) intact--it's the only part of him hat's still the original fabric. It is completely threadbare now, but still hanging on.

All of which to say, I am totally feeling for S and his attachment to the favorite corner.

Posted by: Ashley at March 24, 2006 5:38 PM

That's such a sweet story!

Posted by: Dava at March 24, 2006 5:40 PM

That is so sad:( At least they'll be getting some new special blankies.

Posted by: beth at March 24, 2006 5:56 PM

Sweet Boy! Keep fixing that blankie--it's so important. None of my kids ever adopted a blankie, but each one, boys and girls, loved the fur off of a special Teddy, and still have them. What sweet memories. Thanks for sharing.

Posted by: Katherine at March 24, 2006 7:18 PM

Nothing warms the heart like a much loved blankie!

Posted by: Laurie at March 24, 2006 7:31 PM

That's so sweet. Much loved blankies.

Posted by: Monica at March 25, 2006 2:46 AM

My son's "blankie" has a ton of holes too. I made him a new one and he gave it to the cat. If you knit your son a new one, don't invest much time in it, it will never truly replace this one!

Posted by: Kate at March 25, 2006 7:12 AM

I noticed you used Galway. I use Galway a lot for my kids - mostly because of the colors, the gauge (ligth worsted fits a lot of patterns) and how soft it is given it is all wool. How do you care for it because it is 100% wool. I've had great luck just cold water machine wash and air drying.

Posted by: kathy at March 25, 2006 8:25 AM

I've still got my blanket (you can't get rid of your best friends just because you don't need them anymore). Granted, he's in a terribly deteriorated state and is contained in an Archival Pillow Case in the back of my sock drawer, but still. You could ease the transition from old to new by preserving the Original for Posterity. Whatever you do, don't read the Velveteen Rabbit - I am scarred for life.

Posted by: Emily at March 25, 2006 8:26 AM

Awwww...poor thing...it's kind of sad...but also kinda cute. :p

Posted by: Elemmaciltur at March 25, 2006 10:44 AM

I have to tell you- the wonderful thing about children is that they are not so concerned about aesthetics- he loves that blankie no matter what- try to save it at all costs.
P.S. my nephew was 15 before he gave up his stinky-binky- that may or may not make you feel better.

Posted by: Lorraine The Knitting Hammy at March 25, 2006 12:02 PM

Poor little guy. It's hard to find out that things in life don't last forever, especially special knitted things that Mommy made.

Posted by: Kathy at March 25, 2006 4:28 PM

Hey, at least it's a blankie. My boy sucks his thumb and twirls MY hair. It makes knitting a little difficult at times.

Posted by: Diane at March 26, 2006 10:43 PM

Aww sucks -it's such a shame when a blankie is dying. My 'bigger' boy loved his blankie number 1 so much it fell to pieces, so I found identical blankie number 2. He accepted it, but like your son, he had his fav corner and was upset when that too sadly died. Fortunately I was going on a big overseas holiday, and he asked me to knit him a replacement blankie before I left - guess it would remind him of his mummy in her absence. Well I'm happy to say that the sturdy knitted blankie (satin bound too) is still alive. I used a doubleback knitted thermal stitch which I found in an old book, and worsted weight wool. So it is either these factors, or the one that he's getting older now and doesn't resort to it much, except when watching TV these days. So go ahead and make your son a new one - you and he will never regret it! But get him to assist with a limited wool choice so he will 'own' it (and it doesn't have to be huge either)

Posted by: Susan Hagedorn at March 26, 2006 11:02 PM

awww. HOWEVER, unlike pets where stuffing them is a bit...odd, though understandable, you could frame this blanket or keep it in a special box so it will not wear out completely and knit him a new one.

Posted by: Orli at March 27, 2006 6:52 AM

Now I know most purists will cringe at this thought - but I agree with the idea of machine sewing the frayed edges. I did this 17 years ago on my daughter's blanket after it got caught in the wheels of her baby carriage. She is now 19 and attending college - with an intact blanket (minus the broken edge). It doesn't hurt that it was originally knit from a soft pink acrylic. It has worn like iron, been through many machine washes and is still pink!! So, because you never know how much it's going to be loved, and kids don't care if it's "organic" - go for iron clad acrylic for babies.

Posted by: Patty at March 28, 2006 8:39 AM




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