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august 14, 2006

I'd love you to love me

S's blanket: half blankie, half rag.

The machine stitching I put in months ago is the only thing holding the edge together.

But the favorite corner has torn wide open.

He still loves it though and runs that stringy corner through his fingers every night to fall asleep.

Last weekend, a customer came into the store with a baby blanket that her mother had knit for her daughter. Coindentally it was knit from the same pattern that I used for the boys' blankets. The blanket had begun to fray in a couple of small spots along the edge. Like two spots. And some of the lacy holes had been stretched out by her daughter's loving little fingers. The mom was very anxious to have some knit repair done to save the blankie. It was kind of sweet to see her right about where I was two years ago (before I even started chronicling the death of these blankies), being so genuinely worried about the blanket.

Well of course they directed her over to me for my experience and "help". I'm not sure I gave her the kind of help she wanted though.
- Would the child let you put a backing on it?
- Maybe not, she loves sticking her fingers in the lace holes.
- Is the child upset about the tiny tears and stretches?
- No.
- Does the child love the blanket?
- Oh yes.
- Does the child want a new blanket?
- No.
- Okay then, stop-gap repairs should be able to give her more years with that blanket, but it very well may be that she's going to love it to death. And it's a beautiful thing to watch.

posted by alison at 7:39 am | in blankie blues
Comments

That is so sweet.... you really are a great mom girl!!!

Posted by: mama-e at August 14, 2006 8:22 AM

It's universal!! Alison, what WAS the pattern you used? I'm thinking any blanket that is so beloved must be THE pattern to make!!

Posted by: Bonney at August 14, 2006 8:27 AM

I agree with Bonney; that pattern must be magical. Would you mind sharing the pattern?

Posted by: Suzanne at August 14, 2006 8:46 AM

My son is currently in the process of loving his softie to death as well. And he loves the holes! In fact, when I purchased a replacement (no, his softie is not a handknit), well before the holes began to take over, he rejected it, calling it "too fresh."

Posted by: Liz K. at August 14, 2006 8:55 AM

So sweet. Can you remind us which pattern it is? It seems like a real winner of a blanket.

Posted by: Julia at August 14, 2006 9:01 AM

Funny...I posted a blog entry today with a similar subject, though mine is a rag-doll whos face was literally kissed off...

I really enjoy your blog.

Posted by: melanie at August 14, 2006 9:31 AM

Both of my children have lovies, neither handknit. However, it has been sweet to watch them grow old and tattered. It shows how much they're loved, like the story of the Velveteen rabbit.

Posted by: Jennifer at August 14, 2006 9:52 AM

The pattern is Ann Norling #35 "Crib-Blanket-Afghan II". You can find it online at places like this one and probably at your local yarn store.

I don't know if the magic trick is making the right blanket or making the right kid. S is just all about snuggling and cuddling. B sleeps with his blankie and runs his fingers along the edge like his brother, but when I tell him at noon that it's time for the blankie to go back upstairs to bed, he's okay with it. S tells me that big blankie will be too sad all alone and has to stay with him. Awwww.

Posted by: alison at August 14, 2006 11:20 AM

FYI: I was a thumbsucker and my younger brother had a "blankie". We did a lot of camping and when he got a certain age, he held a ceremonial burning of his blankie in the campfire. For years he hassled me that he had broken his blankie habit while I remained (sadly) a thumbsucker. I was envious of his ability to hold a "ceremony"!

Posted by: Roberta at August 14, 2006 11:45 AM

Oh, the thumbsucking! S is a big thumbsucker. B used to suck his thumb until he broke his arm when he was 1 1/2. He couldn't bring his preferred thumb up to his mouth for the month he had the cast, so he was forced to give it up. Whenever S says he can't stop sucking his thumb, B tells him proudly that HE stopped and that all he needs to do fall down the stairs and break his arm.

Posted by: alison at August 14, 2006 11:55 AM

You are right, it really is "a beautiful thing to watch."

Thanks for sharing this painfully sweet story with us. It has brought a little more joy to my lunch hour.

:o)

Posted by: Suzanne "The Frog" at August 14, 2006 4:03 PM

I'm glad you posted on the blanket again. I had been vaguely thinking about this blanket for a few weeks when I was trying to decide how to design a baby blanket that I want to be well-used. But I didn't come back to your blog to check the pictures when I decided to use regular columns of yarn overs, in between columns of decreases forming chevrons, in blue denim yarn. Now that I see pictures again, boy is my blanket goiing to be similar! I'll post pictures when I give it away.

Posted by: Lisa Dusseault at August 14, 2006 9:57 PM

The blanket chronicle is so sweet and one of my favorite things about your blog. Thank you for sharing it with us!

Posted by: Janet at August 15, 2006 6:50 AM

There is a way to add more stabilizing machine stitching to preserve even the completely ripped up corner. Use the "freeform lace" technique--place the blankie remnants between two layers of self-adhesive water-soluble stabilizer and stitch around the outline of the pieces and then back and forth across the gap in a grid-type pattern (make sure you cross your own stitching lines). Then soak the blankie to dissolve the stabilizer away. Any good sewing store should be able to direct you to the right products. Good luck!

Posted by: jenn at August 15, 2006 9:51 AM

My son is seven years old, and has a ragged old blanket much like your son's, knit by his grandma as a newborn gift (before I learned how). I remember an episode of "Friends" a long time ago where they had a flashback to Chandler's college days--he had a raggy old blankie that he brought to college as a "wall hanging." At the rate my son's going, I fear his "Grandma Blankie" will be hanging on his dorm wall!

Posted by: Katie V. at August 15, 2006 11:56 AM

Dear god! oh why oh why didn't I knit my boys blankets?? I have to get started. Now!! Before I have to make them queen sized!

Posted by: stephanie at August 16, 2006 1:15 PM

One of the few things my son asked me to keep for him when he left home was his precious "bubby", now reduced to a mass of strings tied together in a mass. They truly don't care what the thing looks like. This one started out as a small crochet afghan. I made him a new one later but he never did care much for the substitute.

Posted by: ellen at August 16, 2006 1:28 PM

I only wish I'd known how to knit when my girls were little! Of course, my oldest has a crocheted "Kiblin Cat" and the youngest has her "counting blankie"....safely tucked away for their children!

Posted by: Jo at August 16, 2006 10:05 PM




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